Do You Need a Wife or You Are Becoming a Husband?: Preparing for the Man Marriage Requires

Many men desire a wife, but few stop to ask whether they are becoming the kind of husband a healthy marriage requires. This book challenges men to look beyond the desire for companionship and examine their character, maturity, responsibility, leadership, emotional strength, and relationship with God. Before asking, “Where is my wife?” ask yourself, “Who am I becoming?”

Do You Need a Wife or You Are Becoming a Husband? speaks directly to men who desire marriage but understand that marriage requires preparation. It addresses leadership, responsibility, communication, emotional maturity, provision, protection, faith, integrity, purpose, and the wisdom required to love a woman according to God's design. It calls men to become husbands before demanding the benefits of having a wife.

A godly husband is not merely a man who has found a woman; he is a man who has allowed Christ to shape his character and prepare him for covenant. This book will help men confront immaturity, heal from unhealthy patterns, understand their assignment, and embrace the responsibility of building a healthy marriage. It is an invitation to stop searching merely for a wife and start becoming the husband marriage requires.